Love Isn't Irritable

Let's be real: when life gets frustrating it's very hard not to react with irritation. The next thing you know, your irritation has gotten the better of you, and you've said something you shouldn't have. We've all been there.

In Luke 18:15-17, the disciples got irritated with the crowds following Jesus. What really set them off were the parents who kept bringing their children to Jesus so he could bless them. Luke says, "they scolded the parents for bothering him." But Jesus' response wasn't one of irritation, it was love with a side of truth. "Let the children come to me. Don't stop them! For the Kingdom of God belongs to those who are like these children. I tell you the truth, anyone who doesn't receive the Kingdom of God like a child will never enter it."

So how do you keep irritation in check?

First, remember that Proverbs 29:11 says, "Fools vent their anger, but the wise quietly hold it back." When we behave out of irritation, we put love in the back seat.

Second, and practically, ask yourself this: Is this that big of a deal? Will this matter 7 days, 30 days, or 365 days from now? If it won't matter then, should it really matter now?

Third, if it will matter, then pray about how God wants you to deal with it. Irritation wants to separate us from the community God's built because we want to get away from the person who is the source of irritation. The last thing irritation does is treat others with love, so how can you address the situation with love?

- Today's Prayer -

Dear Lord,

I apologize for the irritation I feel towards the people you've put in my life today to love. Help me to be willing and aware in overlooking the small things that don't matter and give me the courage to address the ones that do. Help me to be more loving and less irritable today.